Reverse Culture Shock
Stages of Reverse Culture Shock
Stage 1: Disengagement/Departure
While a student is still overseas, he/she will start thinking about moving back home and moving away from their experience and the friends they acquired abroad.
Stage 2: Euphoria/The Honeymoon
Your son/daughter may be very excited to be back home and you and your family are equally excited to have them back. Your son/daughter has the opportunity to do, eat, see, smell and visit with all of those things he/she missed while they were away from home. You and other friends and family express their pleasure in seeing your son/daughter again and listen politely to his/her stories for a few minutes. After those few minutes, your son/daughter may painfully realize that their friends and family are not particularly interested in their experiences and what happened to him/her abroad.
Stage 3: Alienation
In this stage, your son/daughter experiences dampened euphoria with feelings of alienation, frustration and anger. Your son/daughter may even feel like an outsider -- a foreigner in his/her own country. Your son/daughter may feel irritated with you and others and impatient with their own ability to do things as well or as quickly as they hoped. Resentment, loneliness, disorientation and even a sense of helplessness may pervade in your son/daughter.
Stage 4: Gradual Readjustment
The fourth stage of re-entry includes a gradual readjustment for your son/daughter back to life at home. It is important for your student to remember that the shock of returning home will gradually dissipate over time and with the implementation of some key re-entry strategies!
Top 10 Re-Entry Frustrations
(faced by most study abroad participants)
- No one wants to hear about my experiences
- It's hard to explain
- Reverse homesickness
- Previous relationships have changed
- People see the 'wrong' changes
- People misunderstand if I adopt elements of my host culture; they misinterpret my behavior
- Feelings of alienation; seeing home with new eyes
- inability to apply new knowledge and skills
- Fear of losing the experience, like storing it away in a souvenir box that we only occasionally look at
Top 10 Re-Entry Strategies
(we recommend to our returned study abroad students)
- Come visit the NCC Center for Global Education. We are travel people, too. We want to see your photos, hear your stories and talk with you about your experiences abroad.
- Become a Study Abroad Ambassador! Your experiences and perspectives are of great value to students contemplating a study abroad program. Being a Study Abroad Ambassador is a fun way to keep your experience alive by sharing it with others, plus it looks great on a resume. This is a paid position!
- Participate in all of our NCC re-entry events. Attend the Welcome Back Dinner and Retreat, mark your calendar for the Re-entry Conference, write an I-Story for our Study Abroad website, and submit your best photos for our Study Abroad Photo Contest.
- Befriend a newly arrived international student or be a roommate with an international student. You might remember how difficult it was when you first arrived in your host-country and how nice it would be to have a 'friend' available to help. For more information about international student "buddies," International Club, and International Roommates Program, contact the Center for Global Education.
- Volunteer at any of the international events our center sponsors. We are constantly looking for energetic people to assist at the various events each semester. Most importantly, our annual Study Abroad Fair in October, the International Festival in February, and Pre-Departure Orientations during the spring term. These are valuable opportunities for you to share your experiences with interested students, families, and community members.
- Look into the various student clubs and organizations available at NCC, especially the International Club, Japan Club, Asian Student Konnection, International Business Club, Raza Unida, SIFE, etc. The International Club fosters relationships between international students and domestic students interested in "all things international" and promotes cross-cultural understanding across campus and in the community.
- Share your email address with students interested in studying on the same program or in the same country as you by joining our General Resources List. Interested students appreciate the opportunity to email questions and hear first-hand about overseas experiences. Your tips and insight will be very helpful.
- Make a scrapbook of your travels. Include your memories along side the photos and souvenirs. You will treasure the scrapbook for years to come!
- Talk to your family, friends and support system.
- Study Abroad Again! If you have the itch to go abroad again, contact Kimberly Larsson at email@example.com or Whitney Ewing firstname.lastname@example.org. North Central College has approximately 50 education abroad opportunities and we are happy to help you explore additional ways to get back overseas! Be a REPEAT OFFENDER!